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Normal-Weight Moms Who Diet Are Hurting Their Daughters

Friday, May 1st, 2009

In the quest for an ‘ideal body’, mothers are putting their daughters’ self-images at risk.  Dieting in normal-weight women is rampant in our culture.  It seems that everybody wants to be supermodel thin.  But at what cost?  Women need to understand that in their own pursuit of perfection, they are teaching their daughters that ‘good’ is not ‘good enough’.

I have yet to meet a woman who is completely happy with her body.  My friends are beautiful, intelligent, successful women who spend a large amount of time talking about dieting and complaining about their bodies.  What messages are their daughters picking up?

It is one thing for an overweight mother to go on a diet to prevent future health risks.  It is another thing for a size eight mom to diet down to a size four.  Body size has a strong genetic component.  It is very likely that a size eight mom will have a size eight daughter.  And don’t we want our daughters to feel great about themselves?  If they see us dissatisfied with our bodies, they will be dissatisfied with their own bodies.  All this diet talk from normal-weight women is not healthy.

When a normal-weight woman tries to diet down to an unrealistic size, she normally winds up gaining weight.  Weight regain rates in adults are extremely high, often approaching 80%.  Maybe not immediately, but within a year or so, the weight usually returns.  Weight regain is even more likely when the dieter starts out within the normal weight range.  Not all bodies are meant to have such low levels of body fat.  We can’t fight our own body physiology.  It is a losing battle.  Yet thin women continue to engage in it day after day.

I was at an eight year old’s birthday party recently with a group of beautiful, thin (but not super-skinny) mothers.  I listened to them talk about dieting, unaware that their children were in earshot.  One little girl asked her mom (a size six at most) why she didn’t eat any birthday cake.  The mom nonchalantly replied, “Ugh.  I am trying to resist it because I have to lose some weight.”  I am sure that little girl looked at her slim mother and then down at herself and thought, “Do I need to lose weight?”  And if she didn’t think it now, she will surely think it before long.

Women have to give up this futile fight for their daughters’ sakes.  Dieting in normal-weight women will not result in long-lasting weight loss and is extremely detrimental to their daughters.  Moms need to think about how their negative body talk and constant conversations about dieting sound to their little girls.  We need to do all we can to support positive self images in our daughters.  Berating our own normal bodies is not helpful.  Instead, we should focus on teaching our children to make healthy food choices from an early age.  We should model healthy exercise behaviors from the beginning.  And we should keep the focus on heart health, not the size of our thighs.  We need to celebrate all the different shapes that women come in.  The best way to teach your daughter to love her body is by showing her that you appreciate your own.

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Top Ten Food Myths

Wednesday, April 8th, 2009

Sometimes it seems that there is more nutrition misinformation floating around than actual truth.  It is hard to distinguish between what is fact- and what is mere fantasy.  Read on for the debunking of some of the more common food myths.

1. You will gain weight if you eat after 8 pm.

The bottom line for weight loss: calories in must be less than calories out.  It doesn’t matter when you eat the calories.  The problem with late night eating is that most people eat the appropriate number of calories during the day and then go overboard at night, especially when eating in front of the television.  So feel free to eat at night- just keep your total number of calories in check.

2. Fat-free foods are healthy.

Not all fat-free foods are healthy.  In fact, sugar is the quintessential fat-free food and nobody would dare say that sugar is healthy.  Many fat-free products actually contain more calories than the original.  To maintain flavor, anufacturers have to add something back when they take out the fat, and that something is usually sugar.  Be wary of fat-free snacks and always look at nutrition labels.

3.  You should not eat carbohydrates if you want to lose weight.

Carbohydrates are a part of a healthy diet!  However, some carbohydrates are healthier than others.  Whole grains, like brown rice, whole wheat pasta, and whole wheat bread, can help facilitate weight loss  by keeping you full.  Diets that don’t include any carbohydrates often fail because dieters get too hungry and feel deprived, increasing the likelihood of a binge!

4.  Some foods have ‘negative calories’.

It is a commonly-held belief that chewing and digesting certain foods burns more calories than the foods actually contain.  It is said that you can lose weight by eating these foods.  These purported miracle foods include cucumbers, celery and grapefruit.  Unfortunately, this is not true.  No food truly has ‘negative calories’.

5. Decaf coffee has no caffeine.

Decaffeinated coffee contains caffeine; it just contains less caffeine than regular coffee.  A cup of regular coffee has 100-150 mg of caffeine while a cup of decaf has 8-32 mg of caffeine.  You are better off drinking herbal tea with is truly caffeine-free.

6. Margarine is healthier than butter.

Neither margarine nor butter is healthy.  Butter has saturated fat that can increase LDL (bad cholesterol) levels, increasing the risk of heart disease.  Margarine, however, often contains trans fats which not only increase LDL but also lower HDL (good cholesterol) and can increase the risk of heart disease even more!  I recommend using a little bit of heart-healthy olive oil instead.  Olive oil contains monounsaturated fats which are proven to decrease the risk of heart disease.

7. Bananas are fattening.

One medium banana has only 105 calories and is full of fiber, magnesium and potassium which can help manage blood pressure.  Bananas also contain vitamin B6 which helps with immune function.  It is true that, per serving, bananas may have slightly more sugar, carbohydrates and calories than some other fruits.  But they are still a very healthy part of a balanced diet.

8. Cooking veggies destroys their vitamin content.

Cooking vegetables actually increases your body’s ability to absorb the nutrients in certain vegetables.  Tomatoes are a great example of this.  Lycopene, a phytonutrient that helps prevent cancer, is much stronger in cooked forms of tomatoes than in raw tomatoes.  It is true, however, that overcooking some vegetables in large amounts of water can decrease their vitamin levels by allowing the nutrients to slip out of the vegetables into the water.  To prevent this, do not overboil veggies.  Try to steam, roast, or microwave vegetables with as little water as possible and keep cooking time to a minimum.

9. High-fructose corn syrup is more fattening than regular sugar

High fructose corn syrup (HFCS) and table sugar (sucrose) contain similar amounts of fructose.  The two most commonly used types of HFCS are HFCS-42 and HFCS-55, which are 42 and 55 percent fructose, respectively. Sucrose is almost chemically identical, containing 50 percent fructose. The bottom line: there is no evidence to show any differences between these two types of sugar.  Both will cause weight gain when eaten in excess.

10. Salt causes high blood pressure and should be avoided

The truth is that restricting salt in people with high blood pressure can help lower blood pressure.  But that doesn’t mean that salt causes high blood pressure in normal individuals.  There is no reason for people with normal blood pressure to restrict their sodium intake.

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